Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone

1. Being Possessive Is Most Likely To Surface.


When you find yourself being possessive. You see her with any guy, your head starts spinning with jealousy! You feel so bad! You want her to be close to you only. How unreal!
If she's your friend, you really won't be afraid of losing her. Unless what you have is just Romantic Love.
This kind of Love wants to GET, POSSESS.

Nobody likes being around a possessive person.



2. You Look Weak and Inactive


This kind of love makes you look weak when she's around. You act weak, talk weak and live weak. That's why she eventually leaves you for another guy.



3. Most Ladies Give The Attitude When A Guy Expresses Love


I'm sure many other guys can attest to this. I don't know why. Mistakenly tell a Lady you love her, she begins to almost immediately act funny. Hmm!
For the most part, you end up losing her. Hmm!



4. "Love Is Blind" Isn't A Lie.


This love blindfolds you to the true realities of whom she really is.
You see her "weak spots" but this kind of love cause you to overlook. You may overlook now but don't complain later


5. You Make Unintelligent Decisions.


Because you think you love her, you bypass protocol just to please her- That's not good for both of you anyways.

For example, you waste your savings on her petty wants during dating and when it's time for the real thing, you look like a child.



6. You Risk Being Heart Broken.


Some years back, I had a friend whom I loved dearly. I told her my feelings, she agreed but couldn't wait- I wasn't ready then. I didn't feel heart broken because I truly loved her.

I felt bad but not heart broken. I want the best for her. Its not a Do OR Die Affair.

One reason I believe no guy should cross a certain limit over any girl!

You shouldn't date her for love alone. What should be your standard?

Go for Reality. Don't present to her a mirage. Hmm! You borrow a car just to ask her out. That's unrealistic!
Be proud of your job, tribe and family. Tell her if she wants to hear.

If she loves you still, then that's no more just Romantic Love. It's crossing over to Responsibility Love.
She is making a tough decision to accept you as you are above all her other suitors.


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