5 JAMB Questions African Guys Ask Girls
African guys can be very bold and direct in the beginning of the courting process. They tend to ‘get to the point’ a bit too quickly and c...
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African guys can be very bold and direct in the beginning of
the courting process. They tend to ‘get to the point’ a bit too quickly
and come-off abrasive at times.
This can be a complete turnoff! The manner in which they ask ladies questions can come off in an interrogative style and immediately kills the potential of a relationship before it even officially started!
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but some of the questions that African guys ask can be very intrusive, annoying and seem offensive during the initial stages of meeting someone. I’m not saying that Blacks behave in this manner, but quite a number of them have such attitudes. I’ve had my fair share of experiences with African guys and have heard a number of stories about other people’s experiences.
1. Do you know how to cook?
When will an African man get tired of asking this question? I understand that a ‘true’ old school African man wants to marry a woman who’s an exceptional cook, but that isn’t the reason to bring this topic up 5 minutes after meeting someone. They don’t understand that there is a time and place to ask a lady such a question and doing it too soon can be a real mood killer.
2. What does your father do?
When African guys ask this question, I strongly believe that they should be stared at as if they’re off their rockers. Seriously! Such a question shouldn’t even be a topic of discussion right off the bat. At times, I wonder if guys are trying to date people’s fathers, how it’s their business and if they “actually” know it’s an inappropriate question to ask before properly getting to know someone. They sound as if the income of the lady’s father they’re courting determines whether or not they will date her.
3. Why are you still single?
This is honestly one of the most ridiculous questions a guy can ask after meeting someone. Who knows what the magic answer is that they want to hear? “I haven’t found the right one yet” “I’ve been waiting on you” or “I don’t know oh”? Comot jare!
It’s a very strange question to ask because it puts ladies in an awkward position. Single ladies are single for different reasons and some people don’t always feel comfortable sharing such information so suddenly. Honestly, some of us don’t even have a direct answer for that question.
4. Are you a virgin?
This is such a random and ill-mannered question to ask someone. Such a question is extremely personal and a lot of ladies don’t like discussing their virginity with guys & even fellow girls. It puts them on the spot.
Some ladies who have already engaged in sexual intercourse might be fine with chatting about such matters, while some virgins are already insecure enough about their sexuality. In today’s day and age, a lot people are having sex like mad animals and guys don’t understand that the subject of sex might still be sensitive for some girls.
5. Are we going to have sex?
African guys need to stop following question 4 with this question. It’s so off-putting and truly shines a negative light on them. I find this question truly degrading on the lady’s behalf and as a sign of desperation on the guy’s. When women are ready to engage in sexual intercourse, my brothers, they will let you know!
I don’t believe any proper lady with dignity is going to give you a timeline of when to have sex with her. Having sex too early is the reason why a lot of relationships don’t last. It puts pressure on the lady to do something she might not be ready for and relationships are NOT mainly based on sex alone!
This can be a complete turnoff! The manner in which they ask ladies questions can come off in an interrogative style and immediately kills the potential of a relationship before it even officially started!
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but some of the questions that African guys ask can be very intrusive, annoying and seem offensive during the initial stages of meeting someone. I’m not saying that Blacks behave in this manner, but quite a number of them have such attitudes. I’ve had my fair share of experiences with African guys and have heard a number of stories about other people’s experiences.
1. Do you know how to cook?
When will an African man get tired of asking this question? I understand that a ‘true’ old school African man wants to marry a woman who’s an exceptional cook, but that isn’t the reason to bring this topic up 5 minutes after meeting someone. They don’t understand that there is a time and place to ask a lady such a question and doing it too soon can be a real mood killer.
2. What does your father do?
When African guys ask this question, I strongly believe that they should be stared at as if they’re off their rockers. Seriously! Such a question shouldn’t even be a topic of discussion right off the bat. At times, I wonder if guys are trying to date people’s fathers, how it’s their business and if they “actually” know it’s an inappropriate question to ask before properly getting to know someone. They sound as if the income of the lady’s father they’re courting determines whether or not they will date her.
3. Why are you still single?
This is honestly one of the most ridiculous questions a guy can ask after meeting someone. Who knows what the magic answer is that they want to hear? “I haven’t found the right one yet” “I’ve been waiting on you” or “I don’t know oh”? Comot jare!
It’s a very strange question to ask because it puts ladies in an awkward position. Single ladies are single for different reasons and some people don’t always feel comfortable sharing such information so suddenly. Honestly, some of us don’t even have a direct answer for that question.
4. Are you a virgin?
This is such a random and ill-mannered question to ask someone. Such a question is extremely personal and a lot of ladies don’t like discussing their virginity with guys & even fellow girls. It puts them on the spot.
Some ladies who have already engaged in sexual intercourse might be fine with chatting about such matters, while some virgins are already insecure enough about their sexuality. In today’s day and age, a lot people are having sex like mad animals and guys don’t understand that the subject of sex might still be sensitive for some girls.
5. Are we going to have sex?
African guys need to stop following question 4 with this question. It’s so off-putting and truly shines a negative light on them. I find this question truly degrading on the lady’s behalf and as a sign of desperation on the guy’s. When women are ready to engage in sexual intercourse, my brothers, they will let you know!
I don’t believe any proper lady with dignity is going to give you a timeline of when to have sex with her. Having sex too early is the reason why a lot of relationships don’t last. It puts pressure on the lady to do something she might not be ready for and relationships are NOT mainly based on sex alone!
