Things An "Average-Looking" Girl Can Do That Will Increase Her "Market Value"
They are not so pretty so they employ all methods possible to keep themselves irresistible and wanted in the "dating world". N...
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They are not so pretty so they employ all methods possible to keep themselves irresistible and wanted in the "dating world".
Note: These is not applicable to all of them but a few well-mannered ones who really wanna settle down.
Character, they say is what is left when beauty fades away; She holds on tenaciously to that seeing the BIG picture.
The painful truth is, by DEFAULT 60% of Beautiful girls are on the contrary of all she believes in. As I said, most of it are old-fashioned but it's working for her.
I'm not generalizing
What are some things that an average-looking girl can do to make her WANTED in the Dating World?
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THE TRUTH IS, MOST OF THESE POINTS ARE INHERENT IN SOME.
1. Being nice with guys, in general. She is a helper.
Have you ever seen a lady who guys truly like? She is not that pretty but to guys, THAT LADY HAS CHARACTER and that sets her apart. She is nice even when she doesn't wanna date you, her wisdom in putting you off is astonishingly amazing. You feel good after she implies a No. That's being Nice. She even sends you a message after that but withdraws on time. I've met a few of them. After saying NO to you, you friend zone yourself in tacit, lol! She's just a gem.
2. "Irrelevant" and "Old fashioned" things like cutting his toe nails, bursting his pimples, knotting his tye, massaging his tired laps etc, are frequently done by her.
Yea, she does it and does it with humility and love. Not only when he gives you cash or buy you a gift. No. She does it because she loves to keep her man that way. It has become a part of her. She is "handy".
3. "Letting her guard down" most times, by becoming a friend to his difficult sisters and brothers.
When a girl like her starts getting closer to him, she may find out how some of his family members are a bit hysterical and difficult towards her. She doesn't turn away so quickly. If she likes him, she stays back and keep a good attitude. Soon, they'll see the stuff she's made of and will mark her "Good". Is it necessary? The question should be, Is he worth it? If he is, she will keep an optimal attitude.
4. Calling his mum, mummy- in such a way...
Yea, this may be common but hers is quite different. Most women know who their daughter-in-law will eventually be, most times, they know by the way she even addresses her subconsciously. It's a bit a mystery. She just can tell when she calls her, "mummy" in such that way...
5. Being simple in dressing thus passing a message to him: "I'm not extravagant; I'll take good care of our money."
I'm listing here what most average-looking ladies do to spell their worth in Bolded Fonts. One way is her dressing. To me, you mustn't reveal cleavage or bum to show you're pretty even when you know you're not. When pretty ones do stuff like that, guys see them like peddlers how much more you? Well, when she dresses modern and decent, she stands out. Did I say, those long and awkward-looking "ear machetes" Or earrings are not necessary to look decent?
6. When cooking, not over buying and over spending, sometimes she uses her own cash- Still passing a very vital message over to him.
Old fashioned? Yes! I know many ladies who do this not because they are trying to win him but because they are just that way. When you, an average... do it, you're passing a timely message. Even in Uni then, there were ladies who were like Mamas. Guys and friends can trust them for food then. They are homely. Guys love that in ladies tho. An economical lady. The sweetness of a correct egusi soup IS NOT directly proportional to the amount of money used i making it but the skillfulness in the lady involved.
7. She spends time building herself intellectually. How most men love this!
Aya! Who doesn't love a girl who knows that she knows but still knows when to come in? She mustn't be a lawyer or a doctor to be a reader or learned. After all, many of those talk flippantly and still don't make sense. She acquires skills for the purpose of her Husby and children. That's preparation. Don't forget that many husbands have lost the route to their wives' pots and channeled it to one Mama Put or One Ekaete somewhere.