Three Common Misconceptions Women Believe About Men
This post is very long so I will skip introduction and go straight to the three misconceptions that women believe about men. 1. Men Are Int...
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This post is very long so I will skip introduction and go straight to the three misconceptions that women believe about men.
1. Men Are Intimidated/Feel Insecure Around Women With Wealth: I don't know where this mentality is from but I have this to say about it.
Nigeria men are not scared of successful women rather they are scared of control freaks. The type of woman that only feels good about herself if she makes you feel less than her.
These are the women that my brothers are scared of. It is called being careful and not insecurity.
Men are scared of women that have personality disorder.
Secondly, if a host of studies are to be believed, marrying these women(career women) is asking for trouble. If they quit their jobs and stay home with the kids, they will be unhappy ( Journal of Marriage and Family, 2003). They will be unhappy if they make more money than you do ( Social Forces, 2006). You will be unhappy if they make more money than you do ( Journal of Marriage and Family, 2001). You will be more likely to fall ill ( American Journal of Sociology). Even your house will be dirtier ( Institute for Social Research).
Have you seen that it just isn't a Nigeria thing?
The same studies have found that professional women are more likely to get divorced, more likely to cheat, less likely to have children, and, if they do have kids, they are more likely to be unhappy about it.
Men are not scared of women with wealth, they're simply not ready for their endless troubles.
Nobody will willingly pierce his body with many sorrows.
Now lemme bring it down to Nigeria women.
This is what happens when a guy asks for the hand of a rich girl in marriage.
Each member of the family will buy one Laser-Sharp Binoculars that can pierce through his flesh and bones and zoom the guy's soul to search his spirit to know if he's after the woman's wealth.
Even when the Binoculars reads negative, they still won't believe it, they will become very envious and are likely to disrespect the guy.
The guy have alota work to do to prove his not after their sister's money before they can respect him.....
The mama will be like, "My daughter, that guy is after your money. He's not good for you, wait my dear, when a good guy comes I will tell you".
Who wants that?
Finally, these women, especially those working in an office or something of that nature do not know that there are things one needs to succeed in business and work.
These things are direct opposite of what we need to have successful marriage and most of these successful women do not know where to cut the line.
To succeed in business, you have to be stubborn, in control etc. Bring these things into your marriage and you are in trouble.
Some successful women would rather blow the house up and everything in it than compromise or take personal responsibility.
Who Wants This?
Women Naturally want to exert control over everything. They enjoy to make those around them feel inadequate, insecure, nervous, angry, anxious and physically sick.
Go to married men that have richer wives and ask them, they will tell you that the message their women pass in everything they do is I don’t trust you to be able to do it right; I don’t respect your judgment; I don’t think you are competent; I don’t value your insight. I can do it all alone.
1. Men Are Intimidated/Feel Insecure Around Women With Wealth: I don't know where this mentality is from but I have this to say about it.
Nigeria men are not scared of successful women rather they are scared of control freaks. The type of woman that only feels good about herself if she makes you feel less than her.
These are the women that my brothers are scared of. It is called being careful and not insecurity.
Men are scared of women that have personality disorder.
Secondly, if a host of studies are to be believed, marrying these women(career women) is asking for trouble. If they quit their jobs and stay home with the kids, they will be unhappy ( Journal of Marriage and Family, 2003). They will be unhappy if they make more money than you do ( Social Forces, 2006). You will be unhappy if they make more money than you do ( Journal of Marriage and Family, 2001). You will be more likely to fall ill ( American Journal of Sociology). Even your house will be dirtier ( Institute for Social Research).
Have you seen that it just isn't a Nigeria thing?
The same studies have found that professional women are more likely to get divorced, more likely to cheat, less likely to have children, and, if they do have kids, they are more likely to be unhappy about it.
Men are not scared of women with wealth, they're simply not ready for their endless troubles.
Nobody will willingly pierce his body with many sorrows.
Now lemme bring it down to Nigeria women.
This is what happens when a guy asks for the hand of a rich girl in marriage.
Each member of the family will buy one Laser-Sharp Binoculars that can pierce through his flesh and bones and zoom the guy's soul to search his spirit to know if he's after the woman's wealth.
Even when the Binoculars reads negative, they still won't believe it, they will become very envious and are likely to disrespect the guy.
The guy have alota work to do to prove his not after their sister's money before they can respect him.....
The mama will be like, "My daughter, that guy is after your money. He's not good for you, wait my dear, when a good guy comes I will tell you".
Who wants that?
Finally, these women, especially those working in an office or something of that nature do not know that there are things one needs to succeed in business and work.
These things are direct opposite of what we need to have successful marriage and most of these successful women do not know where to cut the line.
To succeed in business, you have to be stubborn, in control etc. Bring these things into your marriage and you are in trouble.
Some successful women would rather blow the house up and everything in it than compromise or take personal responsibility.
Who Wants This?
Women Naturally want to exert control over everything. They enjoy to make those around them feel inadequate, insecure, nervous, angry, anxious and physically sick.
Go to married men that have richer wives and ask them, they will tell you that the message their women pass in everything they do is I don’t trust you to be able to do it right; I don’t respect your judgment; I don’t think you are competent; I don’t value your insight. I can do it all alone.
